In light of the declining population replacement rate that's been going on in Europe and The U.S. over the last few decades, it's encouraging that women are wanting to have babies.
Of course, the bad thing is these children are being brought up without fathers.
All that the father absence will do is produce less masculine men out of these boys (the stereotypical “nice guys”) who themselves will then have unsatisfactory relationships with women, if they’re even that lucky.
Just my opinion.
talk about getting the milk without buying the cow....
I'd like to shake these gals and tell them they should demand more respect for themselves than to be educated, working and buying houses with their new found wages, or having a baby before getting the guy to committ....silly, and financially stupid...
my cranky old FIL told me something....that after WW2 when the Gi's were home, he said if a guy met a girl he liked he would ask her to get married right away, because if he waited even a while and played finicky, she would be married off to someone else...such was the demand for marriage ready young women....
and now, a guy can get the sleepins and the house and the baby for nothing at all....sweet deal...
It's more than a "bad thing," it's a CATASTROPHE.
Why not just do what you feel like doing?
vaudine