Don’t misunderstand me, because I didn’t say there was nothing appealing about young girls. What I said was that intellectually there is nothing to be gained by a relationship. The most you could gain stacked up against the most you and everyone involved would lose, just wouldn’t be worth it. It’s a lose lose lose lose lose situation.
There is that rare enticing kid who will be very enticing through no fault of their own. It doesn’t matter. As an adult, the adult needs to think it through and avoid this sort of situation.
This is in no way meant to imply that I think some young girls ask for it. In nearly all instances they don’t, and even if they did, it makes no difference. There’s no excuse for not using your head and avoiding this. Same for women when confronted with young underage boys.
These teachers that get involved, it’s a massive mistake. No amount of short term fun is going to be worth the massive disruption in everyone’s life when it’s over. And it will be over.
I just said that in general.