13 years old...
I don’t get what fulfillment this guy expected to get out of that type of thing. He did it over a period of time too. Okay, the initial acts, you’ll get some charge over. Then what?
You’ve just trashed up her life, your life..., hurt any family and friends of the both of you.
This is such a destructive thing.
If you can’t stand it and have to act on it, leave the area. Move to another state. Good grief! Don’t do it.
I’m with you. Do not and will not in a million years understand what is sexually appealing about children. Never.