It’s not going to change much either....I work with a gal I thought was above this type of thinking...but an incident happened at work with management and I was stunned when she mentioned racism....it had nothing to do with race whatsoever. I was sooo disappointed when she did that...though she tried to backstep..the damage was done.
The same thing happened to me back in the Liberty City riots in Miami a long time ago. I worked at FIU and had several black co-workers I thought were my friends. Boy what an eye opener that turned out to be. I got over my white guilt pretty quickly after that. It never changes.