I’m not aiming any special virtue; I was responding to a claim that everyone uses the term. As a matter of personal practice, would you refer to all women with the “C” word? I don’t use that term either. It’s not that hard to be civil.
99% of the total population don't refer to women as "#unts" but 95% of the black population refer to each other as niggas, there is a big difference in the two and I know you are smart enough to see it.
The use of the word nigger is permitted if one is black but not if you are white; I call BS on that.
Being black gives no one any special preference, regardless of what the PC police say.