Posted on 06/18/2013 7:03:01 PM PDT by Caipirabob
>>Now the divorce is no fault and the lawsuit comes afterwards for the child support which doesnt even have to go to the child.<<
Sadly, there is still spousal support. The original idea was to keep women who stayed at home for their entire lives from becoming destitute.
Of course, it became perverted by a legal system dedicated to cutting men’s gonads off.
In California, the “rule of thumb” is 40% of the difference in the net for 1/2 the length of the marriage (either party can be the higher wage earner and thus the payee). But that is only for marriages < 10 years. After that it is whatever the judge (guess the most frequent gender) decides is “fair.”
No fault (”Dissolution of Marriage”) merely removed the requirement of a specific harm done to the marriage which did not inhibit the divorce but rather assigned weight to spousal support (the “wronged” party ended up with substantial legal presumptions).
How do I know all this? When my lawyer told me to BOHICA, I fired his A and spent months in the law library teaching myself family law.
I represented myself in pro per and filed motions that ended up with the ex asking for the easiest way out.
What was funny was that on a personal level her lawyer and I got along great: he had my sense of humor and I could tell he despised my ex almost as much as me.
Since we settled after I filed a killer motion under the “rebuttable presumption of decreased need” under then Cal 4801.5(c) dealing with meretricious relationships (she was living with some guy), there wasn’t a conflict of interest.
Yes Virginia, there is an alimony.
"In the beginning, there was me!"
>>Youd think there were villagers surrounding Microsoft with torches and pitchforks...<<
Wait.
There’s not?
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