As I think back, my first time was between 9th and 10th grade, with girlfriend moving into 9th grade, who had just turned 14? This went close to three years? I guess we never would have hit any criminal issues? Not sure. However I was 18 a big part of my Senior year, and as a popular jock, I am certain I broke some laws here. Luckily everyone I broke the law with is my good friend on Facebook, they don’t seem too traumatized.
I still adore the first one, it wouldn’t shock me if we wound up together again someday... My current wife (dying) would approve, she doesn’t want me to grow old by myself and likes her too....
Sorry to hear about your wife, first of all. I’m glad you two have the type of relationship where you can talk about the future. I’d sure keep that to a minimum though considering the circumstances.
I’d try to keep her in the her and now, and marvel her at the depth of love you can rain down on her.
You’ll be in my thoughts. All the best, D1...