You are confusing libertarianism with positions taken by the Libertarian Party (LP) they are not the same thing. In my mind libertarianism is classical liberalism (CL). While adherents of CL tend to be socially liberal they are supporters of Christian believes and morals. A CL does not care what consenting adults do in their bedroom. But they do care what consenting adults do in public or the barracks.
I am not confusing anything, you are, you think that even when you disagree with libertarianism that you speak for it, not the libertarians themselves.