I'm sorry for your loss.
“Not all churches are like that....and it’s a mistake to generalize them as such.”
What’s it to you? I didn’t say ALL churches. I am Baptist, or was. Churches are full of 2 kinds of people, saints and sinners. At least I know which one I am, which is more than I can say for MOST of ‘em.
It’s also a ‘mistake’ to preach to someone who doesn’t want to hear it. You inserted yourself into a personal conversation, not a political one. You handle religion as you see fit. So will I. It’s called FREEDOM.