“Where are the strong, proud, responsible black fathers who would actually help their sons and their community become responsible?”
If you were to believe TV and film, that’s nearly every black father. Since you believe reality, however, you know better.
It’s not the presence of a father that is determinative.
It is the presence of the right kind of father. And thug black (or white) dads are not that kind of man.
That upwards of 70% of black babies are born out of wedlock proves that to me. IMO a real man, the kind who makes a good father, will not allow his children to be born illegitimate.