Posted on 03/28/2013 8:33:24 AM PDT by Maelstorm
Some people are born with a propensity to kill. We call them sociopaths.
Predisposition is something we fight with Civilization.
Whether we think civilization can accept or must reject homosexuality (much less the “marriage” of gays) is a crap-shoot.
But let’s not suppose that just because someone is born with a predisposition it makes it incumbent upon Governments to validate their predisposition as a right.
I have a predisposition to molest most attractive women I see. I don’t get to. Tough luck! And, even if they were willing, I oughtn’t. And I shouldn’t be allowed by government to marry 8 of them, even if they all agreed.
I know one thing: G-d WILL sort this out. You place your bets and you takes your chances.
I have noticed that many gays were molested or horribly abused in their young or teenage years. Also have noticed that many that lost their mother, either died or left, when young turned queer. IMHO, about 99% enviromental.
Which means that it IS treatable.
I’ve noticed the same thing, there always seems to be something deep and dark in their past. Or, some were drama queens to begin with, so some things became even more significant in their eyes, leading to their lifestyle choice.
HERE :
If they are not born with these desires then how do their (un-natural) desires acquired in their life become their new (legitimate) constitutional rights that redefine centuries old traditional marriage regardless of voters opposition?
This is an argument I pose at young people,
I dont tell them its Biblical sinning because they will naturally just blow that off. For most of them Obama's word trumps the Bible's word.
A friend of my husbands is a twin. He is ‘gay’ and his brother is heterosexual.
The gay twin grew up as a heterosexual, married, had children. Then decided at some point he was not happy and was gay, divorced, moved to San Jose with a homosexual other, and now lives a totally liberal lifestyle. Claims his being married has not hurt anyone, forgetting what he did to his wife and two little girls. He still sees them, they are of course expected to accept his new lifestyle. He feels he is a good father.
Is there such a thing as a “gay gene”?
If so, isn’t it a genetic defect?
NO
During pride week in Chicago I’ve seen some of the woman. Some of these chicks are brutes. Big shoulders, necks, thick backs.....combine that with men’s clothing, facial hair and homade tattoos. Something..I don’t know is really off.
“Most researchers who study sexual orientation think that both genetic..”
The same folks that defend evolution with all of their might, seem to believe that a “gene” that CAN NOT procreate has somehow survived their millions of years of evolving.
First of all, God made them.
Let’s assume for a minute that gays are indeed “Born that way.”
God knows the cause, whether it is genetic or environmental, and He still said “Do not practice homosexuality.” In God’s eyes the cause is irrelevant. The Sodom and Gomorrah narrative strongly suggests peer pressure was involved.
BTW my oldest daughter is gay and the only “trauma” in her life is that her father and I divorced when she was four because he abused me.
ACTUALLY:
'Gay' Is ALL In The Jeans
It is all about the sexual activity -that IS the only differentiator.
“may play a greater role than genes”
Most certainly, because genes don’t play a role.
The gay twin grew up as a heterosexual, married, had children. Then decided at some point he was not happy and was gay, divorced, moved to San Jose with a homosexual other, and now lives a totally liberal lifestyle. Claims his being married has not hurt anyone, forgetting what he did to his wife and two little girls. He still sees them, they are of course expected to accept his new lifestyle. He feels he is a good father.
Your anecdote sums up the fact that some people think that a fulfilling sex life is actually a right. It is a mark of immaturity and irresponsibility IMO when people behave in the way you described. Throughout our lives, we are faced with temptations and choices. Many people (both homo and hetero) make the wrong decisions based on what "makes them happy". For instance, a man may leave his wife of many years and marry his cute secretary. He doesn't "need" to do this. But he yields to his baser instincts and does it anyway.
In college, I was a theater major and was around a lot of homosexuals. A more sex-obsessed bunch you will never see. Of course we heterosexual guys were trying to score with cute the cute girls as well. We had to jump through all the hoops most guys do - take them out, buy them presents, etc. The gays just seemed to meet and immediately decide to have sex. A young and inexperienced guy could get sexual experience really fast by joining the gay clique. I saw several young fellows get snapped up by the gays almost on arrival on campus. I only know of one of those young fellows that left the gay lifestyle. He ended up marrying one of the more attractive girls and having kids.
The explosion of acceptance of homosexuality grows to a great extent out of the idea that a person has the right to be sexually satisfied all the days of his/her life.
A gene that doesn’t propagate the species?
I wonder how THAT ONE evolved!
um... that’s pretty tramatic.
Actually, I think it grew out of the de facto "ad campaign" we've been subjected to for decades by the "arts crowd's" ugly sister (i.e. mainstream media).
I believe I read this article in 1977 when my younger brother came out as gay to the family.
So in 35 years will hundreds of millions spent on 1% of our society - we appear to have learned nothing.
“Ive seen some of the woman. Some of these chicks are brutes.”
Right, and I think many of them, just because they aren’t very attractive to men, gravitate towards lesbianism. They don’t look manly because they have a gay gene; they became gay because they look manly and couldn’t attract a man.
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