I’ve been familiar with too many girls (not just teens) that no matter how much warning I can give them about not doing something like that and getting drunk (or with drugs) and running around in a crowd like that (or in ‘situations’ like that) - they’ll PERSIST despite all the absolutely desperate warnings I can give.
Usually I’ll hear about things much later, about what happened - as nothing was clearly going on ‘at the time’ I gave the warnings. I know where it’s leading and where it’s going - but NO MATTER to the girls involved ... because they’ll persist all the way to the end. With some I figure they know what’s going to happen and they’re okay with it - because afterwards, it’s like it was no big deal.
I’ve seen way too much of it where these girls will ABSOLUTELY PERSIST in going down this track no matter what (even when they are clear-headed at first). Of course, when they’re not clear-headed later on, it’s even more useless at that time.
With many of these parents who say they are mad at the guys, they should be mad at the girls because they absolutely persist in getting totally wasted knowing that this is where they’re going to end up.
Young girls can be very stupid. Young girls who have had sex with a young man can be even more stupid. The prolactin kicks in and they put themselves on the line, pregnancy, rape, drunkeness. They go stupid.