“not to mention the situations where everyone else in the area having their eyes on what YOU have, and they do not.”
No one would know unless you told them. I’m just a little ole lady who lives by herself in a little house - I’m so old, I have nothing.
Like hell. I'd 'HELLO THE HOUSE!' waving a white flag and getting permission to proceed before knocking on your front door.
/johnny
The kids and grandkids have had it drilled into their heads from toddlerhood:
"How many people does it take to keep a secret?"
"One. Any more than that, it isn't a secret any more."