The data I have shows that:
By war's end over two million served the Union and about one million the Confederacy, of whom all told circa 600,000 died.
And that's the data I have on this subject.
If you want more, you may need to look it up yourself, FRiend. ;-)
For sources on when the North started preparing (it was before April 15), FR's best resident historian rustbucket has us covered.
Please see his posts 401, 406, 413, 416, 418, 420, 422, 424 and 425 on this old FR thread:
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/1927955/posts?page=401#401