None of us make it through life without suffering the loss of friends and loved ones. Yet somehow, we go on, singing and living and not wallowing in self-pity and depression for the rest of our lives.
Maybe what is most amazing is that people think 6-year-olds would have a firm concept of “dead”.
Second most amazing is, given the relatively larger population of Christians within the right-wing community, that some here so discount the belief parents would have that their children are in a better place, starting their eternal life, and therefore can take comfort in that and even be happy.
If you can't see that, then you are a lost cause.