Sadly, parents become interlopers in their children's lives. Why wouldn't teens treat parental intrusions into their lives with disdain? Who are they to give orders? All children are special, and probably smarter than their parents, who still cling to old-fashioned religious beliefs.
Perhaps this is why more “hipsters” are getting into it -
they’re ashamed, or just offended, seeing their reflection in the mirror of their children’s behavior.