Sometimes the guy asks for it, like Tiger Woods.
Of course. Some men are jerks.
But the effect of making divorce “no-fault” has had a terrible effect on the concept of the Nuclear Family. And in most cases the woman has the most to gain. It’s not surprising men have gotten trap-shy.
BTW, Tiger Woods’ wife would have been justified under the old “prove-fault” rules. He cheated and rubbed her nose in it.