He can ask; I don’t have to answer
And your non-answer will be taken not only as a ‘yes’ but also that you are paranoid and angry about intrusive questions- further increasing your risk of violence. think you will just be able to go to a different doctor who wont’ ask? Good luck. not only will that information transfer with your records, but all doctors will essentially be government agents working under Obamacare, so there will be nowhere to go.
That’s why, for four years now, my phone has been in record mode for every medical appointment. I’m old and a bit bored. It would be almost fun to fight these miserable bastards