Lots to agree with in this article…. with the strongest point likely being that sex with other partners (before supposedly that one big final permanent commitment) will mean that one’s heart is just that much more fragmented and hence more unable to love and focus on one’s spouse. This means that marriages between anybody other than virgins have a serious handicap and the divorce stats show it. One thing to strongly disagree with in the article… Sex is NOT just for the young. It is the primary element of the lifelong commitment that ultimately is the essence of marriage itself….in fact, it’s the only distinguishing feature that separates the marital relationship from all other relationships. Without sex, a marriage is for all intents and purposes, dead and that is true for all ages.
hear, hear!