Tell her it’s against the law.
Report her, have her arrested and charged with a felony.
Find out name and address . Report info to local GOP office. Let them handle it. You’ll make their day!
Don’t contact the person .
The more professionally it’s handled the better the results. Ask your wife not to get involved.
No need to endanger her. Thats what law enforcement is paid for.
It’s nice to think wild west responses to yourself as long as you can distance yourself from the emotions.
Hope it works out well.