Nope, I’m talking about Lee. I would imagine the folks today in Gettysburg might be feeling differently than you do. And what is it with you Confederates anyway? America and the Stars and Stripes not good enough for you you have to keep venerating a Dixiecrat?
Before you jump on the it was all about slavery bandwagon, slavery was a factor. It wasnt the factor slavery was on its way out anyway, and given 5 years or so, would likely have been entirely dead on its own. In addition to states' rights, another main factor was money oppressive tariffs that were assessed against the South to pay the lions share of running the federal government (sound familiar?). For an excellent explanation of this issue, see Mike Scruggs article, Understanding the Causes of the Uncivil War A Brief Explanation of the Impact of the Morrill Tariff.
As to who fired first, and why, I would recommend Americas Caesar. I was a product of public schools and was taught the revisionist history line as promulgated by the victors as well, and these books, among others, corrected the errors I had been taught.
Finally, as to General Lee, I dont understand your problem with him. He was a Southern gentleman, a descendant of a Revolutionary War hero, related to George Washington by marriage, and an officer in the U.S. Army before resigning his commission when Virginia seceded. He agonized and prayed over that decision, and in the end, his conscience dictated that he serve his home state instead of the federal government. If you claim that he is responsible for thousands of deaths, then you have to equally claim the same of Sherman, Grant or McClellan.
I have no desire to re-fight the War Between the States -- what's done is done and you are certainly entitled to your opinion. However, I would be gratified if you would research the facts, with an open mind, beyond that what was forced down our throats in public school.