I sorry that I do not fit into the narrowly defined Chrsitian mold you have in mind.
One who, apparently, is of the Oprah/Rodney type:
"Can't we all just get along?"
Christ said the way is narrow. I didn't. (Matthew 7:14, "But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.")
Your actions and behaviors, which are in contradiction to Scripture, are evidence that you have failed to find the road upon which Christ and Paul admonished Christians to walk.