Actually, I am merely re-stating God's opinions. As another poster to this thread pointed out, your decision was either not an abortion at all, and therefore not relevant to this thread and (presumbly) posted for vanity purposes, or allowable by all religions and therefore, painful but essentially moral and also not relevant to this thread. I sympathize with your situation, but I can't help wondering what, exactly, is your game here?
No game. I know better than to get into this. As I stated, it is the first time and last time I enter the abortion discussion. I will continue to disrupt family functions with my fiscal, immigrant, defense, and marriage stances. (which are most likely the same as yours)
At a very premature stage the Dr. and I had a discussion.
"...We don't take the baby, they both will die. ..."
If the pregnancy was in a very premature stage the doctor never would have presented the "one or the other will die" choice. The only choice would be 'one lives (the mother) or both die' and no doctor would offer that choice.
Even in a late term pregnancy it is highly unlikely that a doctor would present the "one or the other will die" choice. Not without a serious discussion about probable outcomes for both patients and the relative chances of each of them. Such a situation would be extremely rare to begin with.
He also contradicts himself when he tells you...
You assume my wife was cognitive.
That's not an assumption when he had already said...
But we both made the choice,...
Things don't add up very well there.