Always someone around claiming Christians ought to be saintly and quiet all the time ~ my Great Grandmother was like that. Every evening when Great Grandpa would grab the bucket of slops to take out to the hogs she'd scream after him "You love those pigs more than you do me" ~ which was probably true but neither here nor there.
I'm sorry not everyone meets your standards all the time but there are occassions when we have to slop the hogs anyway!
"You love those pigs more than you do me"My ex used to say that to me!
Only it was about the dog.
My reply was...
"Look how she greets me when I get home."