Maceman - at age fifty you still haven’t figured out what pisses off the women in your life?? LOL
It's not about what pisses them off -- that's different for every woman. It's about how they handle being pissed off. For example, imagine you're dating Ann Coulter or Laura Ingraham (or Heaven forfend, Michelle Obama). How much fun do you think it would be to have either one of THEM pissed off at you?
I prefer women who are soft spoken and reasonable, who don't scream or project all their past abuse trauma on me.
My current girlfriend, who I met two years ago, is very good at rationally expressing when she has a problem with something I've done. We've somehow managed to work out whatever issues have arisen with no drama, no arguments, no yelling, no emotional manipulation and no sublimated sulking. It's one of the many reasons I know I will love her forever.