To make sure I’m understanding your point, are you saying that lesbian strippers who strip for men and homosexual male strippers who strip for women do desire heterosexual relationships but are too scared to pursue them?
I don’t know their reasoning, nor will I try to. I just remember reading quite a few things about strippers who prefer the opposite sex as to whom they are stripping for...
When and if you have the time, if also you wish to seek this info, search it.
I don’t get “their world”...nor do I want to.