[yldstrk]

It is for me bro

I am frugal
Don’t drink
Don’t hit
Will say no if awakened in the middle of the night or if mauled suddenly after being treated like chopped liver all day, but otherwise as loving as anyone and
a Believer to boot.

Your turn

[SENTINEL]

What do you want from me ? I work hard, buy flowers, pay for everything, let her stay home with the kid, come home and cook dinner every night, take her to church and read scriptures to her, don't watch sports or spend time on other hobbies or even have any friends, I encourage and compliment her, I'm gentle and listen and change when she asks......

I was precisely clear before we got married what acceptable means as far as bedroom stuff. Twice a week. Once a month lingerie, and occasional surprise in a dress and heels when I get home from work. I was clear, I was precise, and she agreed.

That was four years ago. Not one time in the dress, maybe 4 times with the lingerie after I bugged her, and maybe once every three weeks at all saying yes, after I nag her which makes me feel like some kind of rapist or something.

Last night she told me she'll never wear lingerie or put on a dress for me again because it makes her uncomfortable.

Literally ten minutes later she asks me to measure her for a bridesmaid's dress for a friend, I kid you not.

Last night for the first time in years, I looked at porn. I'm scum and going to hell, but so is she. Same old crap the first wife did that drove me to the same place.

Maybe some ladies will see this post and some good can come from it.

[DesertRhino]

Strikingly absent from this Austen technique, is the -slightest- thought as to what makes a man feel loved and happy, and how she can create that for a man she likes. Selfish selfish selfish,,, the whole matter in a nutshell.