God has the right to say this, and I believe He has said it in 1 Corinthians. Argue with God and try to shoot Him all you want. I am just the messenger.
First Corinthians has 16 chapters and hundreds of verses.
If you would like to point to one or perhaps a few verses to make your case, I would be happy to look at it/them.
I’m not exactly sure why you object to a vasectomy so much. Is it better to expose your wife to taking birth control pills for decades? Is it reasoned to think adults in a faithful marriage should have to use condoms for decades?
Perhaps you have good reason to encourage one of these things. I can’t possibly see what it would be, but I don’t have a problem with you living your life as you see fit. I just don’t think you should be condemning others for not agreeing with you.
And by going so far as to quote Bible verses in your effort to do so, I think you’re approaching the absurd.
I’m not here to take you, your church, or any religion to task. I have studied the Bible plenty in my life, and I have never seen grounds to buttress what you seem to be arguing for here.
I would encourage you to live your life according to your beliefs, and let others do the same.