trisham, I completely understand why people think this way and what their point is. And it is a valid point. Please do not think I do not understand exactly what your concern is. And thank you for not calling me a nutjob, liar, coward and..oh shoot, I still cannot remember what that other insult was but thank you for not using it.
Your grandmother must have been quite a woman. I know mine was, God bless her. :)