Unfortunately, it sums up the attitude of many heterosexual couples, as well ... and they are more likely - natural processes - to have children to be put through the wringer.
True-—no fault divorce made the contract of marriage worth less than other contracts. (unconstitutional).
Immoral, selfish people can not be selfless-—and moral. Most parents don’t instill moral character into their children which has to be done in the formative years. TV forms their superficial values which will never endure over hardships.
Love is about selflessness and that can’t exist in a “relationship” based on demeaning other’s bodies for one’s own selfish lust. You would never defile—commit sodomy or stick objects in orifices of someone you truly love. It is intrinsically disordered and immature.