Back to your question - would my High School coach hve used such nomenclature?
No, even back in the dark ages, I think he would have not. Perhaps he should have - we lost all the time.
I will ask him, next time I see him.
My excuses for perhaps being overly serious.
Still, I think it’s ok for men to talk about sex openly in the company of their sons and kids of that age using the kind of language that we would be doing in, say, sports bars, BUT something which guys my age (I’m 42) also should pass on to their offspring is the obligation of men to make females feel honored, respected and comfortable in our company.