[Jonty30]

Women are for more in tune with their husband’s personal patterns than men are with their wives.

Unless the man had a thing for children, prior to meeting her, and was able to hide for her at that point, she would have noticed his changes in how he went about things.

Men are very direct and simple in terms of how they do things.

[DoughtyOne]

Women are for more in tune with their husband’s personal patterns than men are with their wives.

Husbands and wifes are both in tune with their spouses.  Both sexes cheat on their spouse.  Both cause as much pain to the other.  Both sexes miss years long clues.

If it comforts you to think women are much more in tune, I don't mind.

Unless the man had a thing for children, prior to meeting her, and was able to hide for her at that point, she would have noticed his changes in how he went about things.

People change over time.  It is reasoned to realize that men and women sometimes become more dedicated to work or outside interests and spend more time associated with them naturally.

Some changes may indicate problems and then again not.  There is no 100% fool proof way of knowing unless you follow your spouse around, listen in to their phone calls, or hire someone to do it for you.

Men are very direct and simple in terms of how they do things.

And of course women are very indirect, and sophisticated about how they do things.  /s

Take care...