Find a place outside the large cities, where enough people know you personally that you have a reasonable chance to blend in.
If you can’t live there, have a plan to get there. For instance, mine is get the heck out of Iowa and closer to where I grew up. To liberal here.
It's not hard to do in Texas. We just moved to the city from a semi-rural area eight months ago. I just have to bust hiney to get us back there before the SHTF.