There is another aspect of the grooming of young boys. Homosexual predators do not just "jump" their victims without first working very gradually to gain their trust through attention and gifts. Then they pull a guilt trip/blackmail line on the kid "Here I spent all this time on you and gave you x, y and z. Do you have any idea how much that cost? Are you gonna repay me in cash or??? Maybe I should send a bill to your mom...."
The same reason so many Blacks won’t leave the democrat plantation. The dem party has been grooming them all along.
Sandusky nonsexually “courted” Victim 6 for 3 yrs. before making the first sexual move -lathering him in the shower. This first sexual overture after 3 yrs. of platonic preparation precipatated the 1998 investigation and his 1999 retirement. The alert mom of Victim 6 noticed his wet hair, when he came home, saving him from future shower forays with a naked Sandusky. Paterno could have saved all victims after 1998, but he claims now he never knew, even though he obviously forced heir-apparent Sandusky out in 1999.