I must agree that media regularly degrade and ridicule men. I have been complaining about if for some time now. But I respect my man and he respects me. He would readily give up his seat for a lady. I would give mine up as well for any older person of any gender. I think Southern hospitality still reigns here in Texas. For now, at least.
To say the bartender was discriminating sounds like words right out of the mouth of a liberal.
He was intentionally favoring one gender over another in a place of public accommodation. That is discrimination.