“Money quote, right there! As an undergrad from 1998-2002, I can attest that the glut of women on a majority of college campuses means “open season” for horny boys. Unfortunately, I was just every girl’s good friend. “
Yep, it´s open season for horny alphas. Betas though, not so much.
Rule of thumb for comparing sexual market value: Beta guy = Fat chick.
“Rule of thumb for comparing sexual market value: Beta guy = Fat chick”.
I wonder if the Beta guy/fat chick situation doesn’t mean a successful relationship? If everything is about Alpha this, Alpha that... seems like the external aesthetic qualities are emphasized rather than the internal. Perhaps the alphas are always looking for something better....
I don’t know, I’m pretty much a beta guy, or even a gamma. Not an omega, though.
And my wife is fantastic looking. She still gets hit on by 30-somethings, and she’s 62. Of course, she works in a mental hospital.
Are you saying that my fiancee is fat? I mean, I’m by no means a beanpole at 6’2” 300 lb, but she’s over a foot shorter than me and less than half my weight.
/sarc
“Rule of thumb for comparing sexual market value: Beta guy = Fat chick.”
Typically, people pair up with their number. A six will get with a six, eight with an eight and so on.
But a mature person will start to look past that.
My son was a solid eight - maybe a nine - in appearance. (He’s let himself go over the last year or so.) He has the ‘alpha’ personality, attitude and confidence.
He prided himself in being able to ‘get any girl that I want’, and he really could.
But he got tired of b*tches. He found out that the girls who were nines and tens were rarely good, happy, sweet people. (They’re out there, but that’s not the norm.)
He started looking at fours and sixes with more interest. Taking the time to get to know what was ‘under the hood’. He’s found that the more ‘plain’ girls tend to be much kinder and less stressful to be around. When he gives such a girl attention, she’s responsive instead of accepting it as her due and demanding more.
He’s finally realized that getting the prettiest girl to sleep with you isn’t the end game. Looks fade. He’s looking for a kind person who shares his values and that he enjoys spending time with. “You’re eventually going to have to listen to her talk. It’s more important to like someone than to lust for them.”
If he can figure all of this out at 18, it shouldn’t be beyond the grasp of the average male.
Anybody can find a loving mate. One just needs to adjust their evaluation techniques.
As far as the ‘alphas’ getting laid all the time... well, good for them. But they’re not on the path to happiness and contentment and neither are the girls that they’re sleeping with.