That does indeed sound like you have a problem, although sometimes Aspy men can project an aura of “not giving a damn” that is alluring to women.
Of course, it could just be that you got lucky and found an atypical woman. Grats! ;)
I HAD a problem that I didn’t understand. I understand it now, and am fine with it, and can actually do something about it, socially, when I have to. I did luck out with the woman, all right. But seriously, I must have brought SOMETHING to the table.
And, she was able to be a stay-at-home mom while our children were young. And I let her keep big dogs as house pets. What more could she ask? :)