Right on.
Does it ever occur to anyone that maybe the rest of us couldn't care less about what they do in private and that we wish they would just shut up?
If a female soldier had said,
"I'm really turned on by sex with married men. Always have been. Born that way, I guess! In fact, I can't do it any other way!
But the military's adultery and anti-fraternization policies force me to lie about who I am. I have to pretend that I don't want sex with married men and don't engage in sex with married men. This isn't cool. How am I supposed to hook up with married men if I can't let everyone know I'm available for those type of sex acts?
Are you going to repeal these policies so that I can engage in the kind of sex acts that I prefer, you know, because I prefer them? And otherwise I sort have to go without, you know what I mean? Like, sacrifice my own pleasure for, what, obeying the UCMJ? Get in the 21st century, people!
Oh, and please don't give me some crap about how my behavior impacts unit morale or combat readiness -- I think my sexual needs take priority over the needs of the service, anyway.
So, will you repeal these policies that put a damper on my sex life?"
-- would we be having this discussion?