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Posted on 09/01/2011 1:11:46 PM PDT by WesternCulture
The Scottish Highlands were once peopled by a people created out of an amalgam of Irish warriors and Norse Vikings.
They all moved here.
It's not often appreciated just how incredibly like the Scandinavians the Scots are.
“I grew up in a Norwegion area - the author is spot-on. Even when visiting lifelong neighbors or friends, the intent was that if no one answered the door on the second knock; you quietly left. The assumption was that your friend was either sleeping, entertaining someone, or wanted to be left alone”
- This is how we Scandinavians behave.
A citizen of India I once did some business with once told me this was something he liked about Sweden; people respected each other’s space.
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My grandparents emigrated from Sweden (western Sweden, in northern Bohuslän). I have stayed at the Henriksson family farm, which my cousin now runs, and they were friendly enough and welcoming. I have spent many weeks in Sweden, and I was treated OK by most people. I do know the language some, and that helps.
Yes, Swedes are more reserved and private than Americans, and I think they look down on Americans to some extent, based on the stereotype they have. But when they actually can spend time with a real American--hej, people are people.
Now... in order to be more Swedish, I’m rude to everyone.
Good policy! Then when they discover you're actually a nice person, they're pleasantly surprised! ;^)
You know, reading this about Swedish culture gives me a little more insight into my own character. This is kind of how I am! And my Swedish grandparents had a big role in raising me.
It is common among us Scandinavian-American Lutherans to joke about “God’s frozen people.” I guess there’s some truth to that!
“The famous quote attributed to her that “I want to be alone” was really a misquote. Her actual statement was “I want to be left alone”.”
- Nice having intelligent people respond to what I post here on an average thursday.
Mr. Din is right that they were rude when
Waiting in line, a young blonde mother dropped one of her baby’s possessions.
I asked my wife to retrieve it, by now assuming the mother wouldn’t take kindly to me.
She didn’t say thank you.
read the article — he said they spoke English throughout....
What are you talking about Din’s racism or “whitey knows his place” — he doesn’t say anything like that, just that he thought people would be warm and friendly, evidently he didn’t read up on Swedish culture.
Thug is trying to intimidate based on race, nothing more. Of course he like anyone else just knows that anti-racism which he crows about is nothing more than being anti-white. To hell with him and the people that side with that thug. He could have just said the Swedes were rude then went home to his paradise on Earth which has no evil whites.
I know...I was just kidding. It would be unreasonable for a foreigner in Sweden to expect a Swede to be able to speak any foreign language beyond English, German, or French.
He could have just said the Swedes were rude then went home to his paradise on Earth which has no evil whites. --> he could have, but he wondered if it was because he was brown. He was wrong, but he wondered. AND, "his paradise" is the UK, which has quite a few whites and quite a few evil ones (and evil browns, blacks, yellows, red and purples ;-P)
Of course he like anyone else just knows that anti-racism which he crows about is nothing more than being anti-white. -- how exactly is this being anti-white? He talks about how his wife helped a young mother and didn't get a thank-you in return. THAT is plain rude
I've traveled with brown and black and Oriental friends in Italy, Spain, Poland and Slovakia and if you do something nice, like give up a seat to an elderly person or help someone, they WILL thank you -- mostly it will be in the their native language, but they WILL thank. It is common courtesy.
Why this young mother did not thank, I don't know -- I have an acquaintance in Gothenburg who is an East Indian and quite dark and he has experiences to the contrary. Of course, he LIVES in Gothenburg as opposed to Din who was a tourist.
I personally don't think the Swedes are racist at all, may be they are rude (I don't know), ruder as a people than others, I don't know.
Or, the other point could be if the Dins were wearing Moslem gear (I wonder), or that they, being Pakis, looked like the Kurds who plague Malmo (my East Indian friend is too dark to be a Kurd!)
Of course he never speaks Punjabi around people that don’t understand it...
That's been my limited experience too, and perhaps these folks expected the same. But you are correct that one should not expect all to speak English well -- some non-English speaking Europeans who speak very good English are still embarrassed to speak to a "native speaker", thinking their English is not good enough
However, again these guys spoke English -- we don't know if they were speaking the bad English which is prevalent in Britain these days with an atrocious accent "innit?"
good catch. But, since the dude seems a Paki, he may have spoken Urdu.
You go around calling people “racist” you are a thug, end of conversation, have a nice day.
Of course he like anyone else just knows that anti-racism which he crows about is nothing more than being anti-white. — how exactly is this being anti-white? He talks about how his wife helped a young mother and didn’t get a thank-you in return. THAT is plain rude
I’ve traveled with brown and black and Oriental friends in Italy, Spain, Poland and Slovakia and if you do something nice, like give up a seat to an elderly person or help someone, they WILL thank you — mostly it will be in the their native language, but they WILL thank. It is common courtesy.
Why this young mother did not thank, I don’t know — I have an acquaintance in Gothenburg who is an East Indian and quite dark and he has experiences to the contrary. Of course, he LIVES in Gothenburg as opposed to Din who was a tourist.
I personally don’t think the Swedes are racist at all, may be they are rude (I don’t know), ruder as a people than others, I don’t know.
In every black or brown person, a white racist sees a sub-human criminal. In every white person, a brown or black racist sees a sub-human racist.
Who died and gave Din the position of racial superiority to judge and condemn the Swedes? He has plenty of hate against women and people of other races in his own heart and in his own tribe before he starts taking on a stance of racial and cultural superiority over whiteys in Sweden or anywhere else in Europe.
He wonders why his family were stared at -- then says "oh we're a different color" -- that's what people do, as long as the stares were not hostile, big deal. However, he never said it was racist
Then, he says: "superb cultural heritage of Sweden" -- hardly sounds racist
Yet, he points out two things:
The first probably was a misunderstanding, but the second seems plain rude
He doesn't scream or even say it was definitely racist, he just points out his experience
He doesn't go around calling people "racist"
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