First they love you because you are being charitable and helping them out.
Eventually they hate you because you won't give them more
****First they love you because you are being charitable and helping them out. Eventually they hate you because you won’t give them more.***
Not necessarily. My Mother-in-Law wanted control - and
in her twisted logic, thought that buying gifts and creating a dependency would give her power. Didn’t work - I never coveted ‘stuff’ and was raised to work, save and be self-sufficient. Didn’t stop her trying though;)