Having children is one of the things that kind of prevented random sex -- especially for women but also for guys
however. as our societies have "progressed", now the guy can sleep around as much and have kids with however many women and not have to pay a single cent and be utterly not responsible --> bliss for the guy
Contraception use in the main reduces sex to just pleasure. And it is not just pleasure, that's what I think --> what is your opinion, LV Ron?
I see the free availability of this as leading to the moral decay (--> sleep around, don't bear the consequences) and shirking of responsibilities as much as the welfare state does to a large extent
A contraception is not the same as an abortion, but sbb is correct that is is the leading point to this -- if sex is just for fun, then when the contraception fails, the children "are a mistake" and you can see where that mindset leads to --> what contraception does is change a mindset.
yes, we can take the example of people with 3 kids who don't want more, but I could bet that the majority of contraceptives are not used by those folks but by folks out to have non-marital sex, wouldn't you agree? And that leads to the "sex is fun, children are a mistake, so preventing them either before or after conception is ok" attitude -- it's a step, by step approach
Please go back and re read my post that you responded to.
I think I made myself perfectly clear.