It’s been a long strange trip, but in the end I’ve ended up with a more positive outlook on life. These things have a way of focusing you and fine tuning your radar to a much higher caliber of woman, if you deal with it the right way.
You have learned “the lesson”, Free Vulcan. (that is what a group of my closest gal friends called it when we were young and single). You start going out with someone because you like them. However, you really value fidelity after something like this happens. (not that you didn’t value it before but you learn that it is a trait that is put on the top ten list). I am so happy that you now have a more positive outlook on life!! Good for you!