You're kidding, right? Or are you really that naive?
What the State says is marriage, YOU must say is marriage. If you operate a business, you must give EVERY benefit available to married employees to two men or women if the state says so. If you operate an adoption agency, you MUST give equal consideration to two "married" men at the point of a gun.
Unless you're talking about civil disobedience, which will condemn you to a life of financial disaster and possible prison. Or you can just flee the state.
“You’re kidding, right? Or are you really that naive?”
Not naive at all. I’ll marry and ignore anything the state has to say or requires with respect to getting married. There is a point that a Man, if he IS a Man, stops backing.If the State wants to start something that is the states problem, not mine. The state has no authority to define or re-define Marrige, no matter what the state thinks.