My home office work dried up in Dec 2008. Since June 2009, I've been in San Diego at my own expense to stay on a contract. Higher cost of living and taxes all the way around compared to my home office. When I drive back on Monday, I'll be headed to a room I've rented for $450/month + 1/3 utilities. It is 6.7 miles from work. Between June 2009 and last week, I had been able to stay in the guest room at my mom's house in Rancho San Diego, but that took a 60 mile daily commute to get that deal. That's no longer an option.
BTW, the lab you had a chance to visit was at the tail end of my embedded systems work. My colleague died in January 2010. I finally packed up the lab at my home in Idaho last June.
I am sorry to hear that - both about your colleague and your lab.
I am no longer with the Firm - I am an independant. It pays well - when it pays.