RE: Again, choice is not involved. They DO act (as do gays) upon their sick urges but gays, like pedos, do not “choose” to be attracted to same sex any more than you or I “choose” to be attracted to the opposite sex. I think it has almost everything to do with early childhood environment rather than choice or genetics.
I am attracted to many women even after marriage, but I choose not to act on my attraction.
I have spoken to ex-gays who WERE ( past tense ) attracted to men of the same sex but are no longer attracted to them.
Some of them I met through this organization —
All of them to a person tell me CHOICE on whether to act or not to act IS involved.
I think you ought to rethink your ideas.
Actually I don’t need to rethink anything. You stated what I was trying very inartfully to state myself.
I believe a gay person has had that kind of attraction from early childhood. I further believe that attraction is NOT a choice. The only choice part comes in when they choose to act on their desires. However, if they chose to never act upon their urges, it wouldn’t make them any less gay, it would just make them celibate.