Wow! Bigoted much? Sheesh! Also dishonest much? You are, indeed, implying something "untoward about her."
Listen up, fool, things happen in life. Not everyone is lucky in finding a loving life partner. Even straight Christian conservatives, men and women, can wind up without a spouse for a whole host of reasons. Not everyone wins life's lottery.
You evidently think that life is a lottery, eh?
This Christian Conservative believes that life is what we make it through Almighty God's gift of free will. It is our choices and deliberate decisions that guide the outcome of our lives. Life is not a Las Vegas game of chance. It is all about personal responsibility.