[Joe 6-pack]

So she’s fully supportive of her husband packing off, taking an extreme risk and dying in the process, but those that merely say he made a poor decision are responsible for her grief and pain?

[caww]

No, I don't think that was her intention...rather that people making judgments of their decisions is hurtful. Being mindful that this woman just lost her husband her emotional state is not strong enough to handle the criticisms..understandably.