I know all the details I need in this Dear Freeper friend His duty was to be with his wife and newborn
Because you know every detail, when he planned the trip, when his child was conceived, what the predicted due date was and the actual birth date.
This link will provide what it takes to climb everest http://www.ehow.com/how_2121665_train-everest.html
Basically, you have to be on a hardcore physical training for AT LEAST 1 year before your climb, this training will take up most of your time and is very demanding. Once you get to base camp, you stay there for a couple months acclimating. There are tons of conditions that have to be right to attempt the climb, if it’s too warm, they won’t allow anyone up the first step due to high chance of avalanches, he could have been stuck at base camp for weeks before they let him climb, he may in fact have planned to be back in time to see his child born. Thus, prudent to call him selfish.