You can be concerned about whatever you choose. My eyes were opened when I realized the reality of the situation. while I do not approve of men using women’s rooms or even of sex change operations...I now understand that the person seeking the operation has no choice in the matter. If that individual wants to qualify for the operation, that individual is REQUIRED to change his name and use the lady’s room for at least one year BEFORE getting the operation.
You can blame whoever you choose. But you can’t logically blame the individual that uses the lady’s room as he is told to do so.
“But you can’t logically blame the individual that uses the lady’s room as he is told to do so.”
So, the relevant test for whether an action is to be tolerated is whether the government tells you to do it? There’s a lot of trouble down that road.