“Real men are “gentlemen” , especially to those more vulnerable than they.”
Exactly, a real man is strong AND tender when needed. He is capable of dandling a baby on his knee and taking on the criminal who just kicked in his door. He is ALPHA to all the dogs in the house, but gives out ear scratches and belly rubs when he pleases.
That is so eloquently stated!
The reason we have so many disturbed young men and in gangs is because they often lack a good male role model. This produces young males who lack self confidence and strong values and a strong sense of who they are..the result is a young male who is insecure, confused , and without confidence...just the kind who gets violent and indiscriminantly acts out.